Soul Stones

These beautiful pieces of glass art actually hold a small amount of what is left of Wen’s body. So unfathomable. But true. … More Soul Stones


Worst Moments

I can pinpoint exactly the worst moments in my life.

There are three. Each of these was a moment when Wen and I had to say goodbye. … More Worst Moments

Amber Ring

… tears began to fill her eyes. Looking at me, she said, ‘I don’t deserve this. I don’t deserve something so precious and expensive.’ Taking her in my arms, I replied, ‘Muha, yes, you do. You deserve this ring. You are my most precious so you deserve this precious gift from me.’ … More Amber Ring


Sometimes it feels like I am the only one – not that is not true – one of a very few people who still remember. And I don’t mean in the kind of personal, focused on self remembering. … More Rememberer

Dancing in the dark

Another Sunday,       another day of intense mourning,            another day of you missing from me,                 another day of bearing the unbearable.   And so I am continuing my dance between two worlds –               dancing in the dark,        with you between my arms.